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DesignExtend-MSI
01-14-07, 10:52 PM
Luray Williams, a long-time friend of the MIVA Merchant community, passed away Saturday.

Many users knew Luray (Santa Fe Mall) as the guy behind the "wizard" modules for OpenUI stores. Developers and designers knew him as a stand-up guy who vied to provide more tools to store owners in the areas of display and functionality.

If you ever attended a MIVA Conference, Luray was hard to miss. He was the gray-haired skinny guy, donning a western shirt and blue jeans, telling you like it is. He had many stories to share, most of which would shoot you into a bout of laughter.

As you got closer to him, though, you found Luray represented something most ideal. He didn't use his downfalls in life as a crutch, but rather threw them to the side to embark on grander things. He entered the MIVA community simply because he was bored with retirement. He'd install, for a fair price, portions of Bill Weiland's Tool Kit. Realizing a need for more custom work and further module development, Luray teamed up with a few others, which led him to delve into the OpenUI and develop his line of wizard modules. He steadfastly continued developing modules through MIVA Merchant version 4.24, and until this weekend, continued to perform installations and customizations via his Santa Fe Mall store, and DesignExtend.com. He often worked--in some form--seven days a week, with no regard to keeping actual hours. If a user needed an urgent fix, he was there to take care of it right away.

Some users were taken aback by Luray's "tell it like it is" philosophy. He never sugar-coated his answers and he expected you to listen to what he said. He was also a very giving person, rarely passing up a request for help, whether it be assistance on a store or just an ear to listen to a problem. He cared about people and he cared about what he did.

Luray is survived by his twelve-year-old daughter and he was a prime example of how parents should spend time with their children. He quite often traveled hundreds of miles to spend time with her, and he was certain to make sure she knew her father loved her more than anything.

Luray's passing was sudden. He had worked on installations, as usual, through Friday. He had spoken with many of his close community friends during last week (which was also a usual ritual).

For those who knew him simply as the "wizard" guy - perhaps you had him install a few modules and fix your store's layout - know that he did all this because he enjoyed doing so.

For his longtime clients, I'm certain there was a special relationship forged. He probably knew your children's names and where you went on vacation last year. You probably knew what kind of truck he drove. He spoke about such things because he wanted to.

For his close friends, undoubtedly his passing is something that's going to take time to deal with. You don't meet a guy like Luray every day - a guy who likes you for who you are; a guy who understands and accepts your dilemmas, but still tells you that you must get back on your feet; a guy who trusts you and doesn't care why you needed a specific favor, because asking for it was hard enough.

Luray. He fixed our stores. He became our friend. He affected our lives. Something tells me it doesn't end here. I know I'll often find myself hearing his voice when I make a move to do something stupid, or his laughter when I make some life-changing discovery. I'm sure many of us will. He was just that kind of guy.

wmgilligan
01-14-07, 11:49 PM
Please share my condolences with his family. Luray will most surely be missed.

wcw
01-15-07, 12:47 AM
When Luray's brother-in-law called me, I could not believe what he was telling me. Luray was always such a vibrant personality. I couldn't imagine a time when he would not be here.

I've read Pamela's post over several times now and it has finally sunk in; one of my very best friends is gone. Retired from the military, Luray believed in honor and discipline in his daily life. You could always count on him. When I asked him last summer if he would cover for me so I could take a break, he readily stepped up to the plate. He saw it as an opportunity to learn the ins and outs of Merchant 5. I don't know how many times I thanked him, but it was not enough.

Luray was a true gentleman in the MIVA community; I will miss him greatly.

Datagg
01-15-07, 04:29 AM
R.I.P Luray Williams...

DesignExtend.com has lost a team member, and the MIVA Merchant community has lost a dear friend. Luray Williams passed away Saturday.

Kanu
01-15-07, 06:13 AM
:(

When and how it happened?

Vic - WolfPaw Computers
01-15-07, 06:17 AM
The community has indeed lost someone great.

I am shocked and saddened by this news.

I remember the first time I met Luray...he was the very first person to welcome me and "show me around" at the very first MIVA Conference, my business partner Kristen and I attended back in 2003.

We felt out of place and didn't know a soul...even though some knew of us from our posts on the old MIVA Users List. Luray took the time to introduce himself and helped us make the rounds....pointing out and introducing us to many of the key players in MIVA and the community - many of whom we share great professional relationships with to this day.

Over the years, we developed a wonderful working relationship. When we had customers having trouble with modules, or needed help finding a way around a problem in a custom module we were writing - he'd always remind me he was just a phone call away. Sometimes he'd call or I'd call him just to chat and catch up.

Over the next few years, more of my staff met him - and remarked at what a wonderful person he was to be around and to talk with.

More so now than at the time, I regret he did not make it to this last MIVA Conference. He is always such a pleasure.

If you knew the man, you could easily see there was something very special about him. He was one of a kind...and will indeed be missed.

:(

chucklasker
01-15-07, 06:18 AM
He will be missed.

http://www.designextend.com/blog/?p=62

DesignExtend-MSI
01-15-07, 06:51 AM
:(

When and how it happened?

Kanu:

Luray died yesterday of a heart attack. He was not ill.

ILoveHostasaurus
01-15-07, 07:16 AM
I didn't interact with him too regularly but it was a pleasure working with Luray when our paths crossed over the past six or seven years. I wish his family the best and I'm definitely sorry to see him go.

leslienord
01-15-07, 01:02 PM
I have no words, just a sad place in my heart. Godspeed Luray you are a true gentleman. Thank you for the few moment in time that I was able to share with you.

Kanu
01-15-07, 01:33 PM
Now Heaven has a new angle that will forever watch over us and protect us. My Prayers are with Luray and his family.

DesignExtend-MSI
01-15-07, 05:46 PM
Many of you have asked where to send cards. The address is:

Luray Williams Family
6201 Sabre Ct. NW
Albuquerque NM 87107-5739

The family has asked for no flowers, and for those who'd like to send anything there is a memorial fund: Luray Williams Memorial (mail to same address).

Mark Hughes
01-15-07, 06:57 PM
I only had a few conversations with Luray and only one in person. But that is enough that I really do feel sad to hear about his passing, because he was that likeable a person. Like you Vic, I found myself a little out of place in the conference in 2003 and Luray picked up my spirits with a friendly chat--though he didn't know me from Adam.

Mark

Adam - FMM
01-15-07, 07:57 PM
What a total drag.

Luray was literally the very first person in the Miva community I ever did business with, some 6+ years ago when I decided to quit my office job and go it alone as a web developer. One of my first private clients was running a miva cart and needed some custom functionality. I found Luray and hired him to write a custom module.

It worked great, was reasonably priced and he got it done quickly. Later on when it needed some modifications he was more than accomodating in helping me understand mivascript and make little changes.

As time passed and I became more immersed in working with Miva and began tackling scripting on my own, he would answer my stupid scripting questions by direct email from time to time when solutions eluded me.

Sad news about a great guy.

Adam

immy79
01-16-07, 05:31 AM
I remember the first time I really got a chance to talk with Luray. Like a few others, it was at the 2003 Conference. We were waiting around at that awful conference site (Marina Village) after all the sessions, waiting for the dinner cruise to start. I offered him a ride over to the Bahia.

At first I thought it would be awkward. What am I going to talk to this guy about? I barely know him. But that was completely not the case. He was such a kind guy and so easy to talk to. We stood around waiting for everyone to show up for the cruise and just chatted. He definitely had his opinions about things, but I thought that was great. :)

Luray, you will be missed...

stevenestrada
01-16-07, 12:08 PM
Haven't met Luray personally - but professionally his courtesy, attitude and commitment dealing with post sale issues of his stuff - like right after an OPENUI update = Price Wizard Pro broke - won my trust and respect.

Bruce - PhosphorMedia
01-16-07, 09:01 PM
Let me also extend my deepest sympathies on his passing to his family, his friends, and the entire MIVA community.

To bolster Pamela's description of what type of person Luray was, and though I have many other stories about Luray, the one that I immediately thought of when I first heard the news, was how he spent 30 minutes with me at the airport, almost missing his flight, just to help me find a gift to take home to my daughter.

DesignExtend-MSI
01-16-07, 09:41 PM
...was how he spent 30 minutes with me at the airport, almost missing his flight, just to help me find a gift to take home to my daughter.

Oh, I can see him, "Oh <expletive>! I gotta go." As he turns his back yet still looks at you, then starts his speed walking.

Luray often flew out some time after most of us and would leave for the airport hours earlier than necessary to hang out at terminals other than the one he was flying from. While the rest of us wanted to get to the gate way early in case of any changes, he just went with the flow. Gosh, we could learn a lot from him.

Tadeo
01-17-07, 02:47 AM
I am saddened to hear the news of Lurays passing. His modules have served as the foundation of our web store for years.

DesignExtend-MSI
01-20-07, 02:22 AM
Just wanted to follow up as the family is appreciative of all your comments. They've read them and were pleasantly surprised at the impact Luray had in the community (they thought he was just ignoring them when he'd leave the room to go tinker on the computer) and weren't aware of how much of a life he actually had working with MIVA Merchant.

His brother-in-law explained to me that at the memorial (which was today) he would discuss that - this life Luray led outside the circle of family and local friends. Even most of his neighbors weren't aware of just what he did in that office of his.

Jonathan-Driftwood
01-20-07, 10:48 PM
I was fortunate to meet Luray at the first Miva Conference in July of 2000. First day, first other developer I met. We had traded emails for about a year prior and hit it off well, but we had never seen each other so did not know who to look for. Each of us had snuck outside for a smoke before the first session, noticed we both abused non-filtered Camel cigarettes, and became immediate and fast friends - then introduced ourselves. Within about 30 minutes he and I were playing "old home week" with a who's-who of MIva developers in a gaggle of the nicest Miva folks you could ever hope to meet. That first meeting set a tone of comfortable friendship between us all, and no small amount due to Luray's general 'zen' of camaraderie.

From that point we worked together on and off for next 6 years. Sometimes intensely, but more often just to touch base and offer a rekindled smile. Regardless the matter, any and all contact from Luray was a cause for a welcome grin.

At the 2004 Miva Conference we played together again, the same basic crew of Miva-ites took a short cruise together on a big sailboat. And once again Luray added his normal ambiance of friendship which enhanced the experience, and we were fortunate enough to grab a couple of pictures of him too.

http://www.driftwood.net/bloatfloat/
(lower left column, pictures 2 and 3 from the bottom)

To me, Luray was not only a friend I held in very dear affection. He was also a driving force in the Miva community who's work directly or indirectly impacted every person with any involvement in the great world of Miva. He will be very sorely missed.

But I will never, ever be able to think of Luray and not smile. Fair winds my old friend.


Jonathan

DesignExtend-MSI
02-03-07, 07:07 AM
I wanted to post an update, because it's been a hard few weeks for Luray's mother, siblings and the rest of the family. This past Monday Luray's sister Patty passed away. I was asked to think of her and keep Luray's entire family in my thoughts, and thought I'd request the same of you - Luray's mother, who turned 90 last year, is a very strong woman (she takes walks every day and has overcome many of life's obstacles) but right now I can't imagine what she is feeling. Please keep her especially in your prayers. She's such a wonderful woman.

Also, some sharing about Luray's relationship with her daughter and how much he cared about his work:
http://www.designextend.com/blog/?p=62

gordman
08-02-07, 01:10 PM
I have no words, just a sad place in my heart. Godspeed Luray you are a true gentleman. Thank you for the few moment in time that I was able to share with you.
I moment of silence...